Hi!! Wow.. he said he loved you ? Twice !? He never says that you told us! I'm so glad !
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He said he loves me and not only he knows what we are up against but he also WANTS to deal with it for good. He doenst want to run or "shut me up". He said he wonders if talking about it creates deeper wounds than healing, brings hartred and resentment but that he will keep doing what I tell him I want. He said he loves me and wants us to live happy together with no triggers, bitterness and hard feelings.
Thats amazing. Amazing! I was thinking today, its not common that a WAS comes back and theres still a M there to come back to. But some A's last for several years after the D and some A's end but the H sadly still doesnt want to reconcile. There are plenty of examples of both here, but your H ended his A and even after all that time 'away' from you , his love is as stong or stronger than ever.
Well done for getting more details, sounds like it was reassuring to you. Ant Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread