WH was just here with two of his grad students to drop off his car. We live right next to campus so he usually walks to work, but he told me this morning he might need to drive somewhere. They drove up, he put car in garage and left without saying anything to me. When he's by himself, he always pops his head in the house to let me know he's back and off to work.
I'm beginning to see a pattern here, where he treats me one way when it's just us, and with showman-like quality rudeness when he's in front of people he works with. Peer pressure because I exposed A at work? Justifying the affair? Now wonder this roller coaster is so wild!
I'm beginning to think both OW AND job have to if we're ever to reconcile. I keep telling him his co-workers won't be around when he's old and sick to take care of him. At his rate, neither will his wife or kids...
