Don't be happy! There's no law that says everyone has to be happy all the time. But keep doing things like you are doing, that's key to getting to happy when you want to get there. Staying active and doing things you enjoy will eventually help get you where you want to go. Being stuck is a part of getting your heart ripped out. Why should you be jumping for joy, looking for babes etc it's only been maybe two months! My best friends wife left him about eight months ago and I used to phone him every night (because he asked me to) and listen to him cry month after month, and I'm talkin' months here, not weeks (damn, I'm a good friend! grin). Today, he's doing great. He felt his pain, expressed it and can now move on and enjoy life again. He also stuck to doing activities and just like you felt nothing for a while. Take your time, you're not in the Grand Prix of heart healing!


Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White