Well coach,

w says "if you are changing and becoming a better man, than why don't you give me the divorce? You hurt me for so long in our M and now you are still hurting me because you won't help file."

why won't she see that if I am becoming a better man, then she wouldn't have to live the life she hated before I changed?

What do I do now? She thanked me for working more around the house and some other things but that doesn't erase the last few years of our marriage.

How do I proceed? I'd this where things get worse before they get better (maybe)? I guess just stick to the plan and show her I am not waivering in my personal changes?