My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

I have said a couple of times that I don't want to sign the papers. This makes him mad and he'll say that he'll just go get a lawyer then... Which I don't think he wants to do. He has said that neither of us can afford it.

Regardless if I do or don't sign the papers I don't think he cares enough to involve lawyers because he is just so lost and empty. I don't know what to do. He said on sat that he might try to come by on mon evening for me to sign. Mind you j could just sign them they are sitting on the coffee table and then drop them off. I'm trying to make him work for it, in a weird way I guess.

I don't know why his mom doesn't do/say anything.... I think she probably knows how stubborn he is and you can't make someone do something they don't want to do...

I wonder too if he is faking it or just making things seem worse than they are. I don't think he is... He did say he only gets the lump in his throat when he comes over to our house. That made me feel really great. I wonder if it would go away if he stopped lying?

I so want this to be over and I know that we can still have a strong renewed m... If my h gets help. Well we will have to wait and see what happens. At this point I am going to request he watch the video with me and I will sign the papers. After the video I might try to talk with him snd get his feelings from him. That is if he isn't pissed with me.