The woman was supposed to have gotten all her things out his apt. Remember they werent living together. He told me Sat she was sneaking in and out late at night and early in the morning so she woulnt bump into his dad. Once that his dad was on vacation they got brave and that's when she bumped into his sister. So she was "fine" with being kept secret BUT she left all sorts of sample bottles in his bathroom. Molton Brown bath lotions etc, things he didnt recognise they were hers when I told him and seemed surprised. She did it on purpose, I am sure of that. I wonder if she still has his keys...
Anyway, the thing that made me feel better was that she accepted him trying to reconcile with me last year and she accepted becoming the OW AGAIN. That seemed very pathetic to me. She must have been very desperate...
Anyway, I wonder if he will try to talk when he comes. K
BTW, he told me they went on a ...3 day vacation (!!) in summer 2008 because he used his off time to go with the kids. I bet that was something she didnt like much... Maybe that was part of the reason he said something shifted during his vacation with the kids that year and he wanted to come home...
He also told me her parents are divorced (my comment was:I bet she told you how great it was being a kid of a broken family), that he had gone to the hosue she lived with her mom and sister a few times and that she had driven him home one night and he made her drop him off 2 streets away... He told me when he saw her playing with our son, he got furious but in her email she didnt seem like she was apologising or anything, she said "I bet you could see how happy I was to offer him some play time and to take care of him" as if she had done a great job and was proud of herself...
So yes, some things are hurting but I do get a clearer head from answers that bothered me for a while trying to figure out the logistics of their A...
