((((Aver)))),
How goes it? Did you move over to the Big D thread? Be sure to tell me if you do. I'm trying to get internet access at my brother's, how I wish I weren't so technologically unskilled!

I am going to Baltimore - for work not for GAL frown but still will be kind of fun. So I may not be able to check in much til after Wed. but I'll try.

Re: wallowing, I do think maybe it's OK to give yourself permission to do it, under a time limit. We have to let out the toxic feelings!

I sort of feeling like doing whatever's the opposite of wallowing after my meltdown last weekend. It was like an intensive pysch session that kind of has me mentally running away from the sitch, memories etc. Feel like I was submerged in it, now I want distance from it. This week anyhow!!

Hope you had a good weekend! I'll report my GAL on my thread so I can hear about Mr. escort or dr. dates!! grin

((((Hugs)))))