I don't see a need to impose consequences or insist that she reveal her marital status in public.
I agree. It just seems odd or irregular. I would ask the question, "Why keep it a secret." I can only think of one reason a person would deny being married.
Also it would hurt my feelings, but that's me.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted