DLS, it's been awhile but I know people who've been separated and divorced for seven years at least and they still have their times. It's not something any of us will wipe away, never to be thought of again, we just learn to handle those memories better. Btw, last summer when I was ill she actually wanted to drive me to the hospital, leave her work to bring me lunch and did, at dinner, bring me some noodles and congi to eat. Damn, she's more caring now than when we were together but that wouldn't really take much to top, would it!