Yes I feel lucky as well- it is sad that my S may not grow up ever seeing his parents love each other so he won't have a memory. But he won't know any different I guess and right now he is too young to talk so I don't have to hear about OW! By the time he talks, OW will be out of the picture! I am also greatful to have a job to return to, my friends, and a house to live in. Boy when tragedy strikes it goes back to appreciating the basics in life!
And that is a very good quote from SRomeo- it is soooo true! It only gets worse for the WAS as the LBS starts to pick him/herself up, enjoy life and live with a clear conscience!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004