And I agree with Alice's excellent post to you. If you feel you just can't stop "wallowing", you need to look at the role that depression is playing in this. We're not criticizing or judging you, just giving you feedback on what we're seeing and trying to point you towards a tunnel that might have cheese in it.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.