She said, "get out of my sight." I told her I would not leave until I said what I had to. She said that I better find a place to stay soon.
Don't let this scare you. Keep standing up for yourself. Does you phone have a camera? If she goes off on you and threatens to call the cops - start filming to protect yourself.
Stay focused on finding a great job for you. Keep being the best Dad you can. Bust the affair - boundaries and limited exposure.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.