This is I suppose part of the pushing too hard too soon. I am trying to think of a way to word things to kind of feel him out to see if he is willing to even talk about things (a few months ago when I mentioned it he basically just told me he didn't want to be accountable. Hmmm).
It is exhausting being the only one trying to juggle everything when both of us make the money and both of us spend it.
I don't know. I have been handing it this long. I suppose I need to longer. At least he is being more responsible.