Thanks Allen. I understand what you are saying. I'm not planning to actually give her a divorce in three months. In my opinion, she's already broken her part of the deal by saying she's not willing to see a counselor, etc. I'm hoping that time away from the OM will help matters. It may not.
She is on the house deed, so it's very difficult for me to boot her out. Looking at the paperwork for a temporary separation order (about a half inch thick), I would need a lawyer's help in filling it out. I'm not even sure the judge would decide that she has to get out and stay out. But I may be facing this again in three months.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.
