trusting so sorry -- the pain of divorce seems to never end....how can they not see if the 8 year old wasnt in her life....this would not have happened...you havent posted much details....and thats fine...but it makes me sad for the 8 year old too....something going on there....so sad...why do they have to take sides..why cant everyone being on the kids side.....and i just think the 8 year old...how in the world would an 8 year old have anything like that going on....unless...its happened to them....very sad