Updating- The boat is still here, but he is making some headway in selling a couple cars...not that they are on the market, but he is doing the necessary prep work. Right now, because of his severance package, we aren't destitute or anything like that...I just hate that boat...and feel embarrased by it, somehow.
He changed his/our status to married on facebook. Yay! We've had a few discussions about wtf he was thinking during our time apart and why he did what he did. Part of it he said "I was a bad man; bad husband. I never wanted to see myself as selfish, but I was in a lot of ways." Also, he had thought I wasn't his "type", but once he got out there and started looking around, he realized I *am* his 'type'. He still says (very seriously) he doesn't know what kind of spell I put on him, but he now knows I am "the one" for him.
We went out looking for a replacement ring for me; I think after I sell off all my old rings and if I recycle my center diamond on my current ring, it should pretty much be a wash cost-wise.
Overall, it's actually going pretty good. We still have some bumps, but we're dealing with them for the most part.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
