I am struck by how lucky I am sometimes. I know that so many LBS are dealing with much more painful sitches than I am. Although I am hurting for my children, H has behaved as honourably as he could given that he wishes to end our M. Part of me wishes I knew if he was in a R, but part of me is grateful to not have my nose rubbed in it or be tortured with the details.
I guess it's good for all of us to see how "lucky" we are, while still leaving room for ourselves to grieve whatever losses we have. I'm glad you can see his faults and still appreciate - if you think it's true- that he's doing his best. I can't imagine wondering if there were an OW. It would kill me and your strength in the face of this is amazing.
((((FM))))
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.
