V1olin's new life without wife

[DaddyLongShanks]

LolaL,

Have a good weekend. Current ex-spouses? People who are out of their mind? People who's affairs where enabling?

[LolaL]

Thanks...you too...and I am not quite sure what you are asking...

[v1olin]

Your not the only one that is confused LolaL! ^^^^^ lol

[DaddyLongShanks]

Thanks...you too...and I am not quite sure what you are asking...

I was answering LolaL's question:

"I don't think it is a matter of only wanting what you can't have. "
"What is it about this man that I can't seem to let go of?"

[v1olin]

Ahhh, I see.

[DaddyLongShanks]

LolaL,

Just for your info. I've NEVER wanted anything "I can't have". You see its real simple, you earn what you want. If you are in a heavility politicized environment, "They" can keep certain things out of reach. But if you never mention it, and don't make it obvious thats what you want - you can have it there too.

[v1olin]

"breaking up" with the new woman right now. She is so understanding about the whole thing. I have been down all weekend and this is what I must do for right now. I have learned my lesson.

Now, I will just focus on work and my kids. When will I be done with all this anyways? I keep waiting for that "connection" to go away with my wife but it still clings on. We have been though so much together, how can I ever forget that?

[lees]

((((((v))))))

I do hope you're feeling better soon. I'm not sure the connection ever goes away, maybe you just eventually learn to deal with it.

Look after yourself the next few days especially.

[v1olin]

Thank you Lees

I am feeling better knowing that I did not ruin this poor womans life by getting involved with her. She has many other options including 2 men who want to marry her! lol. I was just the best of them. She will find someone soon. I guess I am in for a long spell of "singleness"!

[DaddyLongShanks]

You could plop someone else in the connection.