I agree that she seems not to have looked at everything.
Perhaps she thought her pain and anger would be fixed by us separating, but I think now she is only coming to terms with things as they are very slowly.
She has been very quick to tell everyone that we have separated, almost showing a pride or relief in the fact we have separated to everyone. Perhaps the reality of it is still to hit her.
Regards, Gyn.
Cause all of the stars, Have faded away, Just try not to worry, You'll see them someday. Take what you need, And be on your way and, Stop crying your heart out.