She came over after I had picked up the boys from school.

I had rang before she came over and asked her to bring some spare clothes for the boys so they can go out and play.

We spoke and I told her that 'the advice that I have been given is to separate our finances and I have already done so.'

She just said 'oh, I hadn't thought about doing that'.
She stayed very calm and said that she didn't think it was necessary.

She also said that she had not taken any legal advice, and was surprised that I had - I did not tell her that I hadn't taken legal advice yet.

Overall it was a calm and cordial conversation. At the moment she is doing anything that I ask for and being very helpful.

We both told each other that we did not want to fight each other, and that we would help each other.
Both of us said that neither one of us wants to escalate things.

We all played on the Wii for an hour and then she left.

Regards,
Gyn



Cause all of the stars,
Have faded away,
Just try not to worry,
You'll see them someday.
Take what you need,
And be on your way and,
Stop crying your heart out.