Not sure which way to go anymore

[Abbey]

Oh... and something else... once he's dropped enough crumbs... Don't be afraid to begin to "have an affair" with your own husband.

I knew I"d have to do that with mine. Start back with Not Just Friends, know and understand how someone can get into another's head ... start with you and he having an EA (that keeps the door opened an inch), use the phone, use text etc... but also keeps them wanting more. (also it makes easy communication because he doesn't have to explain long absences to the tramp... and allows you to re-establish the bond between you before she knows what's happening and tries to counteract it. After all... isn't that what she did to you?) *smile*

Understand that that Friendship/EA...Some of the stuff he'll say to you will hurt... but you want him confiding in you, you want to become his new best friend when the time is right. The "prize" is getting his head on straight and being able to come back home.

So... you know the drill... bits and pieces, get your hands on every bit you can about how someone falls for another etc. Be smart about what you know and use it wisely.

*hugs*
Abbey