Need a Plan for My Marriage

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Son would not get ready this morning, so I picked him up to take him to his room. He tried to grab this plastic container. He cried that he hurt his arm. She came running in that I the way I was doing things is wrong when she does nothing. He was acting like nothing happened moments later. I confronted her to not suggest that I was doing something bad to my son. She said, "get out of my sight." I told her I would not leave until I said what I had to. She said that I better find a place to stay soon.

I do not know how to handle my sitch so much these days.

Any suggestions?