hockeymom,
There are a lot of similarities in our situation. I have one question for you - do you think you have issues with rage? What exactly do you think your contribution has been to your marital discord? What specific things have you done to address the things that will ultimately make you a happier person despite your husband's actions? Not trying to barrage you with questions but trying to understand if perhaps I have any personal experience that might be of value to you.

A


M - 46
H - 47
T - 20 yrs M - 19 yrs
DS 7yrs DS 6yrs DD 4 yrs
Bomb - 4/3/10
My Sitch