Cause for alarm?

[OfficerInNeed]

This morning I spoke with OMW. I told her about the whole facebook idea. She said she would do it, so we'll see. I told her that OM has to make it clear there is nothing there and he is happily married.


As for us:

W woke this morning and did a little cleaning in the kitchen. W then put the bird feeder together and outside (been sitting around since Feb).

I eventually went down stairs and W told me the things she did (in a mopy bitter tone). The other day I had purchased some things to dress up the kitchen but have yet had the opportunity to install them. I showed this things off to the W. She had made out a list of things we had to get for the house (little things like garbage can, paper towels ect..).

I was showing W new light switched covers she said "they look nice" W then walked out to living room and said

"My Father put a new sink in at the house, all he has to do is install a hot water tank and the place will be ready for me."

I walked out to her and said to her is a very humbling voice "W NAME, running away is not going to make things better for either of us in the long term"

W replied "I am not running away, I am doing what I have to do."

Then I said "No one enjoys a failed marriage on their conscience"

W replied "Who said I am enjoying this, I didn't have to chance to enjoy it"

I then said "All I am saying, running from this all is not the answer"

She replied once more "I am not running"

I went up stairs, W took the dog outside to brush her. W brought dog upstairs to show me how she looked after she was brushed down. Then W went into shower....


I expect an onslaught of "I am leaving" today, I need some ammunition/responses.