Yup.. that's definitely an addiction... they drain resources like crazy... same happened in my home... its $$ you will never see again... gifts to teh OM, etc... what a waste that is...
On the good side you are in good standing and checked with a lawyer...
Are you gonig to push for primary custody of your son until she agrees to end her affair and see a family therapist with you?
That's what it is likley going to come down to.. unless you want to wait out the affair to see if it ends... and they usualyl do... You can add pressure with a separation agreement including child custody as well as continue to expose to friends how destructive she's being to her innocent son...
