I don't think I am acting that way. When I am around her, I am friendly, ask about her day or if she had a good time or whatever. I try to avoid her bitchy moods, which are often. In the past, I would let her upset me, piss me off, feel depressed, etc. I let it all roll off of me now. She wants to separate bad but won't leave, she expects me to. I have let her know that it is she who wants out, I will not leave the kids or my home.
I understand what you are asking and I admit to having trouble striking a balance between avoiding and trying to "make" her see the changes within me. I take care of our kids, I take care of the house when she doesn't have time. She is not receptive, right now, of any feelings of friendship or any relationship of any kind. She wants out. Period. If you have any suggestions on how else to act around her, I am all ears!
