I would think as long as she appears dedicated to the relationship and you, and you guys are "sleeping together" that over time the OM will be a distant memory.
i wish that were true...but you know my sit, OM will always be around - maybe that is what is bugging me lately, no matter where we go or do there is a chance of bumping into him.
time to stand tall and press on.
Gman
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit