Did you consider how she might have felt when you cancelled? Did she think, "I guess I'm not that important...I'll go on Facebook?"
No I did not consider that. She just totally seemed like she did not want to go. Body language and she was just like whatever. She started talking Sunday evening about how much other stuff she wanted to do other than what she did Saturday. I asked what that was and she said that she did not remember. I do not know if she meant me, friends, or cleaning OUR house which she never does. I clean, do all of the yard work and do so much of the work needed around the house and she sits on the stinking computer. I just want to go to MC so we can get all of this out. But if she is not willing to talk it will be a giant waste of time. I see IC this week, I am going to discuss strategy with finding out W willingness to go to MC with my IC.