The wife went out Saturday night after going out to dinner with me and the kids on Friday. She was with 8 other women (all of whom I know. They got a hotel room and hit the bars for her birthday (been planning for several months). Of course I was home with our 3 kids, cleaned the house, did the laundry, etc.,etc.. She called several times Saturday night to check on us and see what we were doing. In any event, she seems to be coming around emotionally, the problem is that I can barely stand to look her in the face. Not sure how to handle the anger/resentment I am developing.


M: 39
W: 39
Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
Current Status: In counseling