My ic suggested I tell my h that I will sign the papers while he watches a video on depression. The video she recommended a special by PBS called "men get depression". I watched it, it's not bad. The men in the video actually sound like my h.

It does worry me that my h cares about nothing and will assume all debt. Why would he do that? I know he has guilt but come on... I have actually decided I should talk with my mil.


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