He does know about the couple of dates I’ve been on the first time he was taken aback according to the kids. As for the other times, who knows? I don’t tell him, not sure if the kids do and if they do, they don’t tell me what his reaction is.
I think he’s stopping wondering about me and is totally in love with OW, someone who I considered a very close friend and who we’ve known for 20 years – yuck. I hate the thought of bumping into them in town although they must hide I’ve not seen her for nearly 2 years although their R has apparently only been going on for 1.