I think you still need to communicate with your H about your S even if it is only a he's doing ok today, S had a milestone etc. You don't have to go into detail, just keep it brief and to the point.
Just let your H be the one to text and ask about S and then answer in as few words as possible...short and to the point.
Just my thoughts!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
