Just some journaling - pretty good weekend....all this detaching seems to be helping me get a little of my "swagger" back. w has been much more playful/a little flirtatious. For once, didn't let her occassional sour mood this weekend affect mine and I think validated well (instead of trying to solve).
Also had a 180 for me, sticking to my guns and staying home tp clean out our basement on Sunday instead of a roadtrip with w and the kids (which "old me" would have caved on)...not that it was fun, but something I wanted to do.
Had a good lunch out with W on Friday too - conversation pretty light (asked how I thought "things" were going and I said fine).
1 thing coming up - she's going out of town w/ friends in a few weekends (big craft show) in om's city - how to handle this?
Afraid even if she doesn't plan on meeting up she may be tempted (is staying w her friends there)....here's to a good week.
