still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

Hey, thanks Gatsby for explaining. You are right- those are signs of pursuing. And pursuing does involve crossing boundaries (if I let him).

Whatnow-I am thinking about not responding if he asks about S.
I also am thinking about legal implications- like it says that parents will inform one another about the child (don't have exact quotes). Normally he would see S 6/7 days per week so I would be able to tell him during the exchange. But since he is away on a trip, and won't see him for 5 days, it is reasonable of me to inform him.

BUT maybe I can take control and say "I will text you in the evenings to let you know how he is doing."
???thoughts???