He's Loving the Freedom of the 180 - Now What?

[newmama]

Red, you didn't respond to June's question....where are your limits? What is your back up plan?

Your H does need to respect you before he can desire you and be afraid to lose you! I knew that for myself but just had to wait for the right time to get the nerve to do it. I did choose a condition like if he says he wants to file for D, or if he is still treating me like this by May then I will... and then he did so I followed through. But I planned it out ahead of time!

Maybe today or tomorrow is not the right time for you. But at least come up with a plan and think about what will be the thing that pushes you over the edge to implement the plan!