The guy at the gym told me that my W renewed under her married name (I think she has to legally until D) and listed her parent's address as her home address. At least that's something. She's still living at her parent's house. I'm not sure why she hasn't gone out and gotten her own apartment yet? She has the money. Don't know if she's waiting until the house sells or maybe were are D? I know she was gung ho on getting an apartment two months ago but she has since backed off of that. Don't know if she is waiting to see what happens with us or not?
When my W left she wanted to buy a condo or home, not rent. She told me she didn't want to have to move twice. She didn'r end up renting and she told me at her meeting she is looking to move out into something permenant.
YOur W may feel the same. Sale of the home would be a nice down payment on something of her own.
As for the gym membership, if you say she has the money and could afford it, what an extra 100-200 dollars for her?
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