I have an unfortunate update. We were busy Sat. morning with S soccer game. After, actually a little before it was over, she left with MIL for a meeting of a womens group she is part of. After the meeting and since they were rained out on Mothers Day, W came home to pick up S and went to MIL house. Before she left I said we are still on for tonight right? and she said, oh I forgot but whatever, should be done by 8:30 or 9 o'clock. Did not sound the slightest bit inteterested. So I said yeah I will call later with details. Then I started worknig in the yard and was pretty tired. I realized she would be tired so I called her and canceled and she said that it would be best. What makes me mad is that she could leave S soccer game early for a stinking NON-ESSENTIAL meeting but could not leave MIL house a little earlier than planned to go out with me. Not to mention she did not get home until after 10. But I acted like that was no problem.
Then I asked if she would bring S to my soccer game on Sun. morning. She just flatly said NO. She said he had a big day today so I do not want to get him up early tomorrow. The real issue here is she is tired from getting up early all week and going to bed at 1 or 2 in the morning doing god knows what. Such as being on the F*&*(@*$ Facebook. I HATE THAT D*$% web site. She is addicted becasue she has a false sense of security, and feels like she can do things she normally could not. And I believe doing things she should not but who knows. I have heard so many problems caused in M from this and other social netowrking sites. We had a friend that got divorced because he was spending most of his day in chat rooms on AOL way back before FB and MS. So the weekend FLOPPED in a major way.