Hi Red, I remember you from the "old days" as well. I don't really know what would help increase your drive either, but if you do find something I'm sure MrsGGB would be interested too. She pretty much is going through the same thing with little to no interest but doing it anyway.

If you somehow get sex on your mind ahead of the big event does that help? For example, would reading erotica do anything to jump start you? Does thinking sexy thoughts through the day help? How about if H extends foreplay to be an all day thing, or does that just come across as more pressure?