Please help - feeling so desperate - need advice

[fudwoman]

First - thank you so much for your response Lotus - I've got very few sources of feedback so this helps enormously. I guess my perspective is really skewed. I didn't see the conversation as particularly positive. Yes - he doesn't want to move out - yes there is a snowball's chance in hell (from his perspective) that this just a phase for him but basically he said he wasn't interested in doing anything to bring us closer. I just read the part of DR where MWD talks about love being a decision not a feeling and I so wished he could have read that but I wouldn't ever dream of suggesting that to him - just a fantasy. I am indeed going to move forward with the anger program - both the one I am doing on my own and the Bootcamp. Thank you for your input.

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