SA,

Sometimes they slip…

The fact that he still has a legal footing (ie, ownership), gives him the room to occasionally allow himself to go to that place of we in his mind.

You are seeing glimpses. Glimpses into the fact that he has not erased you and your life completely from his mind.

Keep working on yourself SA, and the kids, they seem to be able to handle their father pretty well.


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox