Hey June72 - Thanks for the insight. Interesting to see him through the eyes of a stranger. You actually sound a bit like my one of my brothers-in-law, who had a run-in with WH several years ago and hasn't talked much to him since...
I'm very used to him working long hours but had hoped he would slow down a bit when we had kids. It didn't. More work for me.
Had to laugh yesterday when he was cleaning gutters and threw muck down to yard, accidentally bombing our son (age 7) who had stopped playing for a minute to get a drink from the hose. Son took off shirt and used it to clean hair. WH fretted, "I just washed that shirt for him yesterday!" WH hasn't done laundry since we were married, but I stopped doing it last month when he moved to basement. Starting to appreciate some of my hard work? One can dream.
He spent all day with family yesterday, mostly doing maintenance on house - something he's neglected since OW came into picture. Then he was talking about things "we" needed to do for garden next year. He hasn't talked about "us" and anything in the future for a while. I was mulling that around last night while has was at work for 5 hours with OW.
