I have days like that too where the overwhelming sadness of the sitch just gets to me. I grieve for what was and what has been lost.
I tell myself that was the past, and no matter how this turns out I will never be able to go back, so I start to look ahead and you know what? The possibilities are endless because I realize that I have choices. Sometimes I even feel a bit of excitement not because it is what it is, it's because it is what I make of it.
You've gotten some very good advice from the ladies and it's so valuable to find out the ways people use to cope. Thank you all from me too, as I will check into these thing as well.
