Thanks for the comments. I was my initial thought not to pursue but with the D filed I did feel that this was my last chance and wondered whether to try dipping my toe in and ask to see him. But you’re right it would not help at all.
I’m doing fine and agree with you june living happily is the best revenge.
Anyway the GAL activities have livened up, I’m off to New York tomorrow. Which I think he resents deeply and kicked off the whole money issues which led to me file.
I’ve got to put the house on sale which is good I can move back home to London and get a fresh start.
Newmama – I’ve had one or two dates but my hearts not really been in it. Maybe I’ll feel more like when I’m D. There’s not a great load of men who are interested in middle aged women with 5 kids!!
I truly want to give my M the best chance and try everything before the D is finalized, I want to be able to honestly say I’ve given it my best shot. And against all the evidence; the anti-smiley vibes from my H and the OW still feel that there should be something else I can do. Not sure what – any ideas?
