I am going out of my mind lately. W is absolutely pulling out all the stops to make me miserable. Since I have been working at this temporary position, she has somehow turned the kids against me. D said mom is going to divorce me for some reason. I don't know what they have been talking about while she is with her, but it is not good. She told D all sorts of things, and now D wants to go to Japan. I am worried if they go that they will never come back. I have so much stress these days. W is absolutely out to destroy me. She is trying to pay the bills and do everything to make it look like she is primary parent.
I am considering D only to save myself and the kids. I need to do something soon before it is too late. I don't know what to think or what I should do. I don't know this woman anymore. She is cruel, awful, and evil to me. She is doing what she can to make the kids not want to be with me.
I really need everyone's input into my thread now. I have to do something. Her mediator, the OM, her mother, and everyone else she knows are conspiring to destroy me. No one has to believe me, but it is true. She is systematically tearing apart everything in my family and trying to make me irrelevant.
I just don't know what to do anymore. I do know I have to do something soon.
Me too. Mine does it because she feels she gets empowerment over it. "For power". I believe she may have discovered that half way along in her affairs, a feeling of superiority or control over me. It is evil.
In my sitch, my wife basically disinvolved me from everything regarding the family and her needs. I know her needs are getting met somewhere. I don't know why she cut me out, but the level of control she wanted over the primary household wouldn't work for ANYBODY, let alone me. I believe as I mentioned it over the years, there were pain points for her and she further fueled it. I'm sure she has tape recordings in her head that she replays to fuel her anger.
She can come out of this persona, but the OM has to really do her wrong and dump her in a humiliating fashion.
