So long, and thanks for the fish

[Gardener]

aver,

Oh dear God, how am I going to get through the pain of him getting married?

That's gotta hurt...bad. I'm sorry. But you will get through it in time.

Seems like a lot of changes for one man in one year: new woman; new job (within his company, just a change up) giving up the house he adored; leaving the town he loved; giving up the Planning Commission which he loved; deciding to get married.

Be concerned with/focus on you. Not him. His choices; his consequences.

Don't the stress experts say that anyone of those things is like a factor for a heart attack?

Don't borrow trouble. Least not someone else's. Heart attack? I doubt it. Stress? Yes. Misery? Hopefully.

Well, it is just one more body blow. If only I could listen to my C and stop the self-blame. The remorse.

The Journey From Abandonment To Healing. Get it. Trust me. One of the stages is "Internalizing The Rejection", i.e., must be me, my fault!
No, it's not.

Thanks for stopping in. I will need a lot of words and hugs the next little bit.

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