Sandy2, I dont know if you have been following my situation. My son is coming home from Iraq on Tuesday and my wife is stressing about the party she is giving him next Saturday. She finally agreed to have my mother present as well. I started a progam called marital fitness by mort fertel which is a good program for building marriages. In any case I had sent a text to my wife as a trial to see how she would respond. I just stated that she was my best friend and soulmate. She told me tonight she does not feel the same and to stop sending her these type of messages. Last night she was annoyed because a dish in the dishwasher had not been cleaned to her satisfaction. She stated its times like these when she is uncertain to stay or leave that makes her feel she needs to leave the relationship. This saga has been going on for 8 months and I feel I am getting very angry and frustrated. I dont know how much more I can take without throwing in the towel and saying fine we are done. My 26 Anniversary is in 3 days. I am at a loss. Bobby O
