still separated, headed for D?

[flowmom]

Newmama, what I posted wasn't from that book, but I have to say that that book should be required reading for every LBS. It really does help to see how one's own experience fits into patterns...and how we can move through the process in healthy way that brings healing. I highly recommend it.

And I understand the aloneness and lack of direction. You have made a huge shift and it's going to take some time before you feel grounded again.

Just because you're the Queen of PMA doesn't mean you have to be all the time. You must give yourself space to grieve if you want to heal. Even if the wished-for reconciliation occurs, you will still have grieving and healing to do. WH cannot undo what he has done, or the pain that it has caused you.

(((Newmama)))