W asked me to take the reigns with the D filing etc. She said it is too much. I politely said that she wants a D not me, I am not standing in her way b/c I know I did alt to drive her to this but I don't want a D so I'm not doing the work. She was upset and said I did this and if I would have changed 2 years ago that would be different. I apologized for not being aware of my faults before but said "today I am focused on being a better man and husband, I choose to not give up, your choice is yours."
