Remember, even the September date is just the starting point of the divorce process. My IC would say: "It doesn't matter when the legal process starts... only when it ends".
The legal process is long and emotionally draining for both parties. Don't assume that just because you hit Sept "its over". You have lots of time to work on yourself.
The most important thing you can do right now is regain and display emotional stability. You won't be able to do that if you are fixated about some future date which may or may not happen.
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