Don't lie, but, I suppose you could "validate" your H's decison to other people??? IDK! I don't know what to say about the kids...as Mila says, they are aware...
It just sucks, doesn't it?
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing